How can one be naturally more attractive to women?
An old age question but many men spend countless hours in the gym perfecting their bodies to be, what they think is, the ideal image of what women seek. They ingest unappealing protein shakes, maintain a cocky attitude, and tan their skin to a crisp all because the media tells them that this is what women find attractive. It’s true that there are some women out there that look for these qualities in a man, however for the majority of women, no. Just no…
To become the man who will become naturally attractive to women, it’s important to posses the following qualities:
Believe it or not, it’s possible to be confident without being over the top. Don’t mistake confidence with cockiness, or arrogance. It’s easy to gain confidence, however it is difficult to project it in an attractive way. Confidence can often be misinterpreted. Women like a man who is comfortable with themselves. Some signs of healthy confidence are maintaining eye-contact, keeping a steady tone, and having a sturdy, strong posture.
Boldness & Initiative
Women love when men will show initiative. It illustrates that you have primal tendencies when you see something you want, and you go after it. Get over that fear of rejection, and walk up to the women with a smile and a conversation starter.
Having A Sense of Humor
You don’t have to be a comedian, but a subtle sense of humor is a great component to have if you want to be attractive to women. Humor implies that the man likes to laugh and have fun, and who doesn’t like that quality in a partner? In addition to adding to attractiveness, humor will lighten the mood and release tension in the conversation.
Taking Good Care of Yourself
The statement ‘beauty is only skin deep’ is definitely true, however let’s keep that skin looking well groomed. Try and maintain your looks, and keep up your body image. When you look sloppy, you also will feel sloppy, and this will hurt your confidence. Appearance isn’t everything, however it’s important to note that it is impossible to notice a personality from across the room. Your face is what is assessed before you get an opportunity to speak. In order to be attractive to women keep your facial hair groomed, your hair looking neat, and your smile looking fresh.
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Places To Meet Women
You now know what are the necessary attributes to be naturally attractive to women. Let’s talk about some ways that you can meet the lady of your dreams.
Extra-curricular activities – Classes are a great way to meet women. Whether you are in yoga, dance or cooking, it’s important to consider that by meeting women in an extra-curricular you are guaranteed to have at least one common hobby. These types of events are also typically informal, easy locations to strike up conversation.
Volunteer/charity events – Volunteering is a great use of time. Anytime that you can combine helping others, and talking to an attractive female, it’s a win-win situation. Additionally, you get the satisfaction of knowing that the woman you are seeking is just as compassionate as yourself.
Church – Although religion should not be the deciding factor in who you are dating, it does tend to relieve tension when the person you are with has the same morals and values. Churches often offer social meeting events after services where you have the opportunity to get to know the people in your parish. It’s not a bad idea to take advantage of some of these meet-ups.
Speed dating – Speed dating may not be at the top of the list, but it is a fun way to get over the nervousness of talking to new people. In speed dating you typically have two minutes to talk to each person before they move onto the next. It’s a wonderful place to gain experience with initiating conversations with strangers.
Internet – You know that saying ‘there are many fish in the sea’? Well, when it comes to the internet, that statement couldn’t be any truer. At your fingertips there are countless women who are looking for company. One great thing about the internet is that it’s much easier to express confidence and humor through text. So, if you are slightly socially awkward, the internet may be the best place for you to start out.
Whatever means you choose to find women, it’s important to never lose hope. There are millions of women out there, and in time you will find the one who will meet your needs.
Think of courting women as a sales endeavor. You are the sales person, and the product that is being sold is you. It’s necessary to build that product up to the best it can be, without over selling it. Make sure that you have confidence in the product being sold. Any great sales person will tell you that to really sell you need to believe in the item you are selling.
Keep in mind the key attributes that are perceived as attractive by women. Although attractiveness is subjective from person to person, there are certain traits that nearly every woman looks for. Remember that to be attractive to women you need to express confidence, initiative, and a good sense of self awareness.